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Late night post.

The other day, I saw someone post a question on twitter.
"Which one should we choose, the person that we love or the person that love us"
I didn't reply but I looked at the answer given by that person's friends and I thought about their replies for days. Most of them said that she should pick the one that loves her. Full stop. No question asked. And then, I saw something on tumblr that said something along that line, about how happy we will be if we're married to someone that loves us more. She said that her mother told her that love is never equal and if she loves her husband more than he loves her, she will live in misery.

If you ask me, I would say pick the person that you love. If you have the opportunity to pick him as your partner, why would you choose someone else? Because someone else will love you better? Dude, that's really selfish and super unselfish at the same time. You're using him to ensure that you live an okay life and to make sure that until the end of your days, he will love you. But then, what about you? Are you completely okay knowing that you're living with someone that you don't love? Will you be happy with the fact that someone that got away is somewhere out there with someone else? And if he decides to love you one day, are you going to leave the person that loves you and go to him?

If everyone decides to fight and win the heart of their loved ones, no one will be selfish enough to just accept the love that they get and not work for it because why would they do that? They were only there to enjoy the benefits that they will get out of being loved. I know that it takes two to tango, but apparently you can just stand there and let the other person drag you and dance their butt off and still make you look good at the same time. You get me?

Statistically speaking, it is quite impossible to find the love of your life in one shot. And that is why you have to keep searching until finally you'll find that special someone who will fight for you, as hard as you will fight for them. Don't be afraid if it takes 20 years or 40 years for you to find it, don't be afraid when everyone around you have found theirs and you are still alone, don't be afraid if you think that you've found the right one but apparently they are not, because when you finally meet them, you'll know it will all be worth it.

So guys, take some time off to write a love letter, or take someone out on a date or better yet meet their parents because we go big or go home hahaha but yes, I hope you'll get my point.

A picture of my parents because they are the reason why I believe that we can love someone equally. Photo taken in front of my house, haha no just kidding. This is a Museum in Terengganu. 

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